Adopting the right attitude can change a negative stress into a positive one.
采取正确的态度可以把负面的重压转为积极的动力。
I have a friend, Michelle, who is training two people to do a job.
我有一个名叫Michelle的朋友，她正在对两个干同一份差事的员工进行培训。
Now, this can be a stressful situation for all concerned.
对这件事的三个当事人来讲，这都是一个容易引起焦虑的情况。
It's stressful for people trying to learn something new.
同意培训的人因为需要学习新常识而焦虑。
But it's also stressful for the person answering questions over and over too.
而进行培训的人也会由于重复回答相同的问题而感到焦虑。
Michelle thought back to when she was being trained.
Michelle回想起她自己同意培训的时候。
The person training made the process more stressful by her negative attitude.
因为培训人的消极态度而使得整件事情愈发叫人很难忍受了。
It was hard to learn and remember when she was under this negative stress.
在这种消极环境之下，她非常难学习和记忆新常识。
So now Michelle is being positive with her training.
所以目前，作为培训人，Michelle要用积极的态度进行她的培训。
She's keeping a positive attitude as she trains these new employees.
在培训这类新员工的时候，她一直维持着积极的态度。
Yes, there is still stress learning something new and training, but it's positive.
没错，对于双方来讲，他们在学习新常识和教讲课程时仍会感到重压，但重压已经转化为了积极的动力。
Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.
以真心爱彼此，因尊重彼此而获得喜悦。
When we love others and honor them we can adopt the right attitude and we can change a negative stress into a positive one.
当大家关爱别人，尊重别人，大家就能端正我们的心态，把消极的重压转为积极的动力。
（翻译：小木）
